I can speak Malay! We learned about Malay weddings in social studies at school and watched a very long 2-hour video on wedding ceremonies. I think I can conduct the ceremony.
Don’t you think my red aztec corn tassels look just like the bunga manggar? Maybe not as colourful though. And I am very sad because no silks are out, so we are carefully shaking the pollen from the tassels into plastic bags and popping them in the fridge.